My husband started going to a church different from mine about ten years ago. i was happy that he was involved in something to glorify God and he was happy too. last year i noticed he started hiding his cell phones , making secret phone calls in hushed tones at all hours of the day and night which he would end abruptly if i entered the room. he started attending church practically every day. i began monitoring his cell phone he began texting and deleting them. Then one day a text did not go thr' and I read the text' Good morning my Adeilla' and i realised this was strange. THEN i read " I am nar, then "Enjoy your evening service ' and knew it was someone from church. We became so distance that we stopped having sex for about six months. I know he was cheating. he stopped helping out at home financially or otherwise and he became abusive. HE CONTACTED tb AND i HAD TO HELP HIM BACK TO HEALTH. aS SOON AS HE REGAINED HIS WEIGHT , BACK TO HIS OLD WAYS. eVENTUALLY i TOLD HIM HE NEEDED TO CHOOSE HOME OR THE OTHER PERSON. HE LEFT FOR 11 DAYS. THE OTHER PERSON TOLD HIM TO COME BACK TO HIS WIFE AND HE DID AND i TOOK HIM BACK. i BEGAN GOING TO CHURCH AND i FOUND OUT WHO THEPERSON WAS AND CONFRONTED HER. sHE SAID SHE WOULD STOP BUT THEY SECRETLY CONTINUED, BUT I PUT MY FOOT AND I PRAYED. i STILL HAVE ISSUES BECAUSE SHE CALLS FROM 6 DIFFERENT NUMBERS. i NO LONGER CHECK. bUT HAS BEEN TRYING TO DISTANCE HIMSELF. CAN SOMEONE HELP ME TO HEAL AND HOW CAN I FIX MY MARRIAGE OTHER THAN WITH PRAYERS.